Should I request a draw in a game of Chess where I suggested a bad move to the opponent which she took?

Question

During a game of Chess, I suggested a move to my opponent which allowed me to take her queen, which she took. My opponent is now demanding that I either forfeit the game or request a draw.

Answer 1

I have played Chess and a Lot of Go. People are always giving other people advice. This is best known by the term Kibitzing. If you don't take their advice they complain and call you an Idiot. If you do take their advice and it turns out to be the wrong advice they tell you what an Idiot you were for listening to them. Its just part of the game. You did not demand that she take your advice. Its all just part of the game. Its something that you will have to explain to her. I don't think that you two were playing this game in the Candidates Tournament so if you want to be a nice guy give her the draw but explain the next time she is on her own!

Answer 2

I would highly suggest NOT playing an unlimited time game online many players are bad sportsman they start losing then they pout when they don't like the position or they become very angry when you refuse there offer of a takeback OR they use a a computer or an automated buddy to play out the game. The safe move is to play your games unrated so if the guy decides to not move at all you can abandon the game and +cens the loser.

Answer 3

From the point of view of the rules of chess, it's clear that you have no obligation whatsoever to offer a draw. Your opponent is responsible for the moves she makes, regardless of who first suggested them.



If you are friends with your opponent, you should disregard the strict letter of the rules and offer a draw or even resign, especially if you were intentionally trying to trick her into making a blunder. It's foolish to risk a friendship over this sort of gamesmanship.

Answer 4

Who really cares about your opponent?



It was your opponent's own fault that she followed your suggestion, which, wasn't a MUST to follow.



I'd say you take the win.

Answer 5

I agree, it is her fault for making the move.



Why are you suggesting moves to your opponent though?

Answer 6

no, it was her fault for taking your advice.. chess can be a very competative game..



i say u take the win :)

good luck

Answer 7

I would, and apologize to her.



Actually maybe even resigning (forfeiting) might be seriously considered.

Answer 8

That depend on whether you want to do in a moral sense or not.

Really, it's your own choice.