First - Questions I have, are
1 - will you be apart of a "Party" of Players... and if so,
2 - are the Majority of them Good Aligned Characters...
3- And one bonus... is there a Paladin Involved...
If you answered Yes to any of the above, my advice... DON'T play an Evil Aligned Character for your first character. The Problems will arise when you try to act in character against the other players... will probably get yourself killed before you even learn of the power TO become a Lich...
But on the side note... Version 3 [Not 3.5... 3.5 I do not even think of as a Proper D&D Release] of D&D would have the best rules for trying to eventually get to the Status of Lich, you'd probably have to play an Evil Cleric or Evil Mage specializing in Necromancy.
On a Side note... Version 2... AD&D has even better rules, but i doubt you wanna go back that far if your a new player...
In regards to Pure RPG... all rules sets would be the same. The Rules are there just for when it gets "interesting" when the Halfling pulls out a Dagger... >.> Hehehe. Reason for this is because no matter what Set you use, it's always the Imagination of the DM and the Players that creates the story...